The time came for the encounter “face to face” with that man or woman with whom you come to know you virtually. It is logical that you arrive with expectations: most women make eternal consultations with their friends to know what they wear, how they are combed and where they go to have dinner or have coffee. Many men feel insecure about what image to give. What I come to tell you is simple but effective: I want to offer you some tips so that the first impression you leave is glorious. Do you know how it is achieved? Being like you are!

If he or she is going to remind you and want to see you again it will be for what sets you apart from others. Your particular way of talking, laughing and living life. These are some secretillos to shine in the first encounter:

* Be true to your tastes. Do not go to a bar if you do not like the bars; I propose a place that identifies you.

* Dress “from you”. The way to feel comfortable is to be inside the clothes that makes one feel good. Of course, you have to work hard to be cute, but do not change your style.

* Do not pretend a character. The performances are very good in the theater or on the TV. In real life, one wants to encounter a being of flesh and blood, who feels, thinks, has contradictions. Show yourself in your essence.

* Avoid the complaint, lamentation and victimization. This does not mean that you do not talk about your problems; Just do not make them the hub of conversation.

* Make humor your weapon of seduction. No one resists a person who can laugh at himself.

* Do not lie, do not armes strategies, be clear and transparent.

* Do not try to please the other all the time. In the differences is the wealth.

And remember: the nicest thing you have is yourself. So I know you and become unforgettable for that special person you are meeting.

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Bye Tinder, hello world! These are the 4 best ways to meet someone

Yes, maybe dating apps are what you are today, but if you’re the one who long for romance, or you just do not get online dating, then give your life a spin and start doing these 5 things. We assure you that sooner or later you will meet someone.

1. Be more open

If the mountain does not come to you … Say goodbye to negativity, and go in search of your ideal boy/girl!

It may sound like trite advice, but if you want to meet someone, the first thing you have to do is say goodbye to ‘No’. If you avoid going to a party or going on a blind date, you could be wasting a good opportunity.

Neither do you close when an unknown person speaks to you on the street, at work or anywhere else. Of course there are their exceptions, but sometimes the best friendships – or relationships – can arise in the most unexpected moments or places.

2. Adopt a dog

And what do dogs have to do with finding the love of my life? Well, not only do we assure you that you will be happier if you adopt one, but you can meet very good prospects every time you take them for a walk. And no, dogs are not accessories, but they are always a good topic to start a conversation.

3. Leave the car, use the bike

It might sound like a movie story or crazy, but I’ve met a couple of people who, by traveling by bike, bus, or shared Uber, met their current partners. That is why it is good to leave the car from time to time and go to school or work in these means, yes, always extreme precautions. Not only the environment will thank you, but also your heart.

4. Open registrations!

Do you die to meet someone? Enroll in a class; Whether to learn a language, to learn to cook, a diploma in marketing, or whatever you can think of. In addition to learning something new will help you in any job you have, your list of friends will grow … and also the suitors.

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1. Violence, jealousy and lies: If the fights with your partner have been taking another nuance, if they verbally or physically attack you should end that relationship immediately, because it is proven that the aggressiveness will increase, and you can not put your life in risk. The same if you lie continually or have defraudo your confidence.

2. Dependent manipulator: If your partner subtly obliges you to do certain things because you are convinced that they are good for you, you should put a stop, because sometimes they dominate you arguing good reasons, but in reality everything operates for their own benefit. No relationship based on fear can thrive.

3. No projects of their own: They have had a relationship for years and the routine has overwhelmed them. Everything is based on custom, there is no emotion, no feelings, no passion. Neither plan to marry, nor live together, do not want to have children, only see time spent holding hands.

4. Selfishness. Everyone knows when he is selfish and when the other is selfish. Selfishness does not allow love to develop. In addition to judging their families on a mutual basis, not approve, not give value to what the other feels or thinks. All this speaks of that there is no real encounter between the two.

5.- Lack of love: It is valid that feelings change. It may be that over time the relationship has cooled down and you no longer feel the same love for your partner. It does not mean that you stop caring as a person, only that the feeling is different. Then it’s time to let it go. Both deserve to be with someone who loves and respects them above all else.

From infidelity to lies, through to monotony, continuous reproaches and economic problems, there are many causes that can lead to deciding to end a relationship. The most important is when you no longer feel love for the other, and only you know when it happens. Honesty with yourself is indispensable.

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There is a great fear among many men to look slimy when they go to talk to a woman who interests them. Many women are too frightened when they talk to them. It is completely normal, but I do not know, for fear of messing up and being rejected.

The first thing to keep in mind is that whether or not we like the other person does not depend on us. And it does not depend on the correct words, so I can not give you a script.

The second thing to keep in mind is that you have to distinguish between slimy and interested. There is nothing wrong with being interested in someone in particular. Someone who is interested in someone else, talks, cares about their life, and tells them the things they like about that person in a genuine and sincere way.

Somebody slimy, in my opinion, is someone who does not really care about the other person for what it is, but wants to bed with her at all costs. He is not interested in his life, but the question about his life to pretend that interests him and so get to bed with her. And we invite drinks or gifts without feeling a connection with it. And that despite the fact that the other person is what signals that he does not want anything, he continues and continues to annoy, he continues and he continues to intention. What I understand as slimy is a dishonest person, selfish, very heavy and that anything to lie down with agluien. And I would not be surprised that many of them have to go to prostitutes.

In any case it is not worth worrying about whether or not you are going to look like a slug, because you know it is not like that, just son imaginations.

There is nothing wrong with being interested, even sexually, by someone we do not know yet, but you have to talk and get to know that person, and you have to know how to bring rhythms.

Many men go to bed with the first pretty girl that the case did, but what if that girl really wants to steal the money? If it’s a man And if it’s a prostitute? What if she’s a psychopath? You have to know that person before you know if they really convert you, even if you really like it a priori.

My advice is:

If you really care about that woman, there’s nothing wrong with starting a conversation with the natural world mayor, and not afraid to look like anything. Speaking as if and well-known from long ago, as if you were with your best friend, naturally and spontaneously. Make a comment about something in the environment that can lead to an initial conversation; Or talk about things that are not found: the place where you are, the friends in common, the class you are going together …

What is said at the beginning is not so important, you can start a conversation in infinite ways, you just have to open your mouth, say something, look at your face and smile a little. It works very well to say the first thing that goes through your head. Saying “hello” is a good way to start. And a “what a day” very good way to continue.

There are other types of phrases that I sometimes like to use, which are sincere. For example, you do not know what to say; “Hello, I see you and I wanted to talk to you, but I’m not sure how to tell you”, surely his smile. And whenever she smiles is good. For example: “I’ve been looking at you, but I did not dare to approach, because I feel a little bad” but if you are sincere she will always value it.

Then if the other person puts a bit of their part a conversation started.

If that person feels a pleasure with you for your body language: smiles, naturalness, flowing conversations, jokes … and I can introduce you by your name.

If you have met her in a pub or disco, do not invite her to drinks. It makes them feel like you’re paying for them.

A part of the trivial conversation you have, try to communicate what you think of that person, what you like to ellam, in a sincere way. Do not say: “How pretty you are” say “I like your smile”. And do it as if it were normal for you to say these things, (until it is)

If you want to appear on this site, you can stop asking questions: “I hope I do not look like a child but … I like your smile” (or whatever)

If there is something that you really value about her, not just her physique, but her way of thinking, let her know.

When you start expressing in a sincere way she will also do it, and she will start to feel more and more confident.

Have a sense of humor, just like if you are with your best friend. And treat it as equals. Do not treat her as if she deserves better treatment than other people.

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We already know most of the symptoms of depression, as well as its consequences, but there is a field that is particularly affected by depression and barely spoken, because it belongs to the most intimate terrain. We are talking about sex.

There are several reasons why sexual relations are adversely affected in a case of depression, all of which can be treated and resolved. But for this you have to know how to recognize them and also discuss them with the specialist. In any case, this issue of sexual relations in depression seems important because it can lead to the end of the couple.

Sex and depression

One of the main symptoms of depression is the lack of interest in everything, and that includes sexual intercourse. And as a symptom or as a consequence, anhedonia or the inability to enjoy anything is also very frequent, and that includes, again, sexual relations.

But there is more. Antidepressants, so feared by the number of side effects, seem to reduce libido and sexual desire, which coupled with the typical symptoms of depression of tiredness and lack of interest, results in a null sex life during the process Recovery from depression.

The lack of self-esteem, so frequent in a depressive state is another factor that can alter sexual relations. And all this becomes a bomb that can dynamite the foundations of a couple. We are not talking about sex being the priority of a couple, let alone a person with depression, but identifying a real problem and finding a solution.

Prevent depression from affecting sex

This inappetence, this lack of desire and interest in having sexual relations in a couple when the depression appears can cause a great misunderstanding in your partner, who is despised without understanding very well the reasons. Therefore, the first step in reducing the consequences of depression in your sex life is to talk to your partner, make him feel valued and understand that your lack of interest is a physiological problem and not an attitude.

The second step is also talking, but talk to the doctor who has prescribed antidepressants. And most people, when they go to review their treatment for depression, omit or perhaps “forget” mention the problems that have appeared in relation to their sex life. If you discuss these issues with your doctor, you may be able to resolve them by changing the antidepressants or by simply adjusting the dose.

Although the most important thing is to try to see the situation from a realistic and objective perspective. Do not neglect or ignore the importance of sexual relationships in your life as a couple, but do not push or pressure. As treatment for depression becomes effective, your life will normalize, but overcoming a depression requires, above all, time.

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